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Pamela Anderson Believe’s Tommy Lee’s Wife Is Reason They Don't Have a 'Better Relationship’

The actor said she hasn't spoken to her ex-husband "in a long time."

(L-R) Pamela Anderson, Tommy Lee and Brittany Furlan.
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Pamela Anderson believes that her friendship with ex-husband Tommy Lee was ended by the musician's wife, comedian Brittany Furlan.

While visiting SiriusXM's Radio Andy show on Thursday (January 15), the actor said that she's no longer in contact with the Mötley Crüe drummer, who she shares two adult sons with. The ex-spouses were married from 1995 to 1998, and in 2019, Lee married his third wife, comedian Brittany Furlan.

During her chat with Andy Cohen, Anderson said that her relationship with Lee would be improved if Furlan wasn't involved.

"I just think he’s a real romantic," Anderson said, according to Page Six. "He’s very dedicated to his wife, and I think that he just doesn’t want to cause any waves or maybe, I don’t know, but I don’t like it."

The Last Showgirl star also wished that her and Lee had a "better relationship." "I haven’t spoken to him in a long time. I miss him," she continued.

Anderson added that as co-parents to sons Brandon Thomas, 29, and Dylan Jagger, 28, the exes will always be "connected in some way." The actor said even in her attempts to "ask about" Lee, "send him pickles" and "try to stay in contact" through their sons, she's met with rejection.

"I don’t know what it is," Anderson continued. "I have to stay out of it, and I shouldn’t really be saying anything, but I do wish them the best. I hope everything’s okay."

Anderson said something similar on Radio Andy last year and wished they had a "better rapport."

Furlan was in the news recently for having a temporary restraining order filed against her by rock musician Ronnie Radke. The Falling in Reverse frontman accused the comedian of stalking him on at least two instances after Furlan interacted with a social media account she believed belonged to Radke.

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