Molly Qerim (center) host of ESPN's "First Take"
This won't shock you: Sports is a competitive industry, no matter what position you play. And for women, the game ain't the same. Not only do you have to be an expert, you have to battle men's ignorance on top of it. (Before you say those days are over, refresh yourself on what International Women's Day was all about.)
No one's going to give you a seat at the table (or anchor desk), and if you get there, there are unique rules of engagement for how to stay there. Luckily, there are women navigating the industry who don't mind sharing what they've learned.
Complex spoke with SB Nation's first female editor-in-chief Elena Bergeron; Newsday's Kimberley Martin, the only black woman NFL beat writer at a major daily newspaper; and ESPN anchors Molly Qerim, Cari Champion, and Jemele Hill to bring you the major keys.
(Interviews have been edited for length and clarity.)
First things first: It’s not in your head.
"I've found that the biggest discrepancy is that there are two very different perceptions of what constitutes professionalism for men and women in the sports industry. For women, there's extra scrutiny on everything about your professionalism—from wardrobe to how you interact in even passing conversations—that just isn't fraught for our male counterparts." —Elena Bergeron, editor-in-chief, SB Nation
Women are still battling ignorant stereotypes.
"Perception is a tricky thing. I don’t want to give into stupid people and let them win. However, women in my industry are subjected to a double standard. If we develop a good rapport with an athlete or a coach, we’re not being a good journalist, we’re being a floozy. You’ll be under harsher scrutiny and will receive far more criticism if you make a mistake. A man in our business can make a mistake and just be a garden variety idiot. For a woman, it’s proof we don’t belong. It’s a delicate balance, where you have to be aware of the perceptions, but you can’t feed into stupidity." —Jemele Hill, anchor, The Six
"My focus is always on what I can control. I can control my effort, my enthusiasm, and my preparation. I can’t control perceptions or antiquated ideas about whether women belong in sports media. I built my credibility by simply doing the work. I was committed to journalism. I was passionate about telling stories, breaking news, critically thinking, and developing sources. I knew what I was talking about because of my experience, and that’s how I became an authority." —Jemele Hill
And sometimes assumptions work in your favor.
"People make assumptions about you because you’re a woman in sports, people think that you don’t know anything—some athletes or coaches think you don’t know anything. Some of them, being a woman helps because while they look at some of the middle-aged reporters as threats [or] they’re reporters out to get the 'gotcha' quotes, they may look at you and not see you in the same light, so you may still be able to get information that way." —Kimberley Martin, Newsday's Jets beat reporter
"When we come into an industry such as this, we have to consistently prove ourselves, and by consistently it means we have to show up and do the work until they’ve decided that we’re credible enough, whomever 'they' may be. Now for my male counterpart he doesn’t have to do that; he’s given the credibility right off the top and then he may keep it or he may lose it." —Cari Champion, anchor, SportsCenter
So you gotta make sure you win.
"The credibility comes before you get on air. It comes with coming to the production meeting and having ideas and being prepared and being up on everything that’s going on, being professional, and showing up every day and working hard. I think that’s where you build the credibility and the respect." —Molly Qerim, host, First Take
"When I first got on the Jets beat, my mistake was thinking I just wanna fit in, I just wanna blend in with the male beat writers, I don’t want any of the players or the coaches to look at me differently. I want them to give me the same scoops or the same information or the same stories. Now, I’m going into my sixth season as Newsday’s Jets beat writer. Now I realize standing out is an asset, and that’s what makes me different." —Kimberley Martin
But your bounce back game has to be strong.
"When I was a local reporter in Atlanta, and I got fired for allegedly cursing on air and I got my job back, I thought that was going to ruin my reputation and I was never going to work again. But it wasn’t so much about what they thought I said, it was about how I got along and played in the sandbox. Women are held to a different standard, and if we don’t know how to get along well and play well in the sandbox, again, we’re not given the benefit of the doubt.
"For us, learning the game is different than it would be for anybody else, so it’s how you adjust to the game once you recognize what the game is, and then what you do with the tools you have." —Cari Champion
"I'm physically small (5 feet tall) so I'm used to having to literally swing elbows to get my job done. You can't operate in a media scrum or get your job done in a locker room if you don't know how to speak up and, oftentimes, how to box out." —Elena Bergeron
"I often tell the story of how when I first started working there [ESPN], the one and only person who reached out to me in the most warm way was Jemele Hill. She demanded a friendship and wanted to be my friend. That’s an example of women can be in the same industry, we can do the same thing, but we can be separate and still be supportive of one another. It's not that if you win I don’t win; if we both win, everybody wins." —Cari Champion
"If that kind of situation did happen [flirting], I would just be like, ‘Oh, appreciate the love but I’m focused. I’m about my business; I’m not tryna mess up my money.’ And I think anybody that is also on their grind and has made it to that level, they’re going to respect that." —Molly Qerim
And above all, know your shit.
"I always tell women—and I may do this to a fault—but I always go hard on my stuff to make sure I’m overprepared, and when you’re overprepared you’re confident. Have a general sense of all the storylines, but be an expert for whatever your segment may be if it’s television, or whatever your column is if you’re a print journalist.
"That way you can always feel like you’ve brought everything you needed to at the table, and you feel comfortable asking for a seat at the table." —Cari Champion